Vince Ferelli used to own a gymnasium for kids in Chicago, Rod Daily used to sell women's shoes at Marshall's. Both have gotten head during working hours. There's no way to watch Wendy Williams during my period of gay Argentine exile, so I've taken to watching Roma's pre-sex interviews with the boys of Hot House as if they were syndicated by a gay King World. Maybe it should be. Anyone who can get a gay for pay star Rod Daily to detail the qualities he look for in a man ("takes care of himself," doesn't matter about his personality) deserves an honorary Emmy.

October 31st is certainly a BDSM-appropriate holiday. Though dressing in black and outrageous costumes immediately come to mind, don't forget that at the heart of many a D/S interaction lurks the potential for a good shudder. Classic forms of fear-play include pushing limits, facing down phobias, and simply scaring the crap out of somebody. Behind Kink offers you this brief celebration of fright, and wishes you a happy — and safe — Halloween.

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Not everyone may remember, but when Tom Chase started doing porn (c. 1996) he was almost twinky (above, from Falcon's "Driven")

Case in point: Fratmen's delightful, cornfed Bryson. Who cares if he looks like he just stepped out of an Archie Comic.

More pics after the jump ...

Kink.com is proud to announce a new era of hardcore FemDom, which starts today with the official launch of DivineBitches.com under the direction of Maîtresse Madeline . And all new DivineBitches.com subscriptions come with free, unlimited access to our entire archive of MenInPain.com shoots! Let the floggings begin!

DivineBitches: a phrase that makes male slaves quiver with both fear and delight. Kink.com's newest site offers a unique format, in which male slaves must endure members of a powerful pussy posse of gorgeous Dommes before they can reach the top to finally encounter the Queen Bee herself, Maîtresse Madeline . This gauntlet of flesh features the hottest, hardest women in the industry, each skilled in delivering pain with one hand and pleasure with the other. DON'T MISS THE BRAND NEW SMOLDERING SITE TRAILER — guaranteed to make you sweat!

I had a chance to sit down with Raging Stallion's Chris Ward -- one of gay porn's true auteurs and someone I'm honored to call a friend -- to discuss the controversy surrounding their upcoming movie, "Focus / Refocus". Angling to be this year's biggest gay porn blockbuster, the movie has already generated its fair share of criticism after we posted this graphic snuff scene from the movie last week.

After the jump, Chris responds to critics and gives us some insight into what to expect. But first, the world premier of the Focus / Refocus hardcore trailer:

On Wednesday October 28, 2009 the legendary Maîtresse Madeline will unveil her new vision of female dominance over the inferior male species: DivineBitches.com. Madeline has gathered a team of fierce femme fatales that demand full devotion and obedience from the gutless gimpboys that whimper and beg to be stomped on by the bitches' sexy high heels. To celebrate the launch of her new site, Maîtresse Madeline has decided to offer a FREE live show to all viewers, members or not. Don't miss this rare chance to witness the queen bee in action.

The show begins Wednesday, October 28, at 1:30pm PDT.

Perhaps it was Lukas' Story that imprinted on my young brain a fascination with legendary Bel Ami orgies ... or perhaps I'm just a hot-blooded gay man. I caught this trailer for one of the Personal Trainers movies on the Bel Ami site this weekend (it's playing free on the homepage for those without a membership) and it reminded me that in an era when everyone claims they want "natural" and "raw" gay sex, just how good a well-choreographed gay orgy can be. Bel Ami used to have at least one a year: dozens of boys, a dazzling succession of rising gay cocks, a never-ending line up of legs and arms akimbo, finished of by gushing fountains of cum. I'd be surprised if Bel Ami majordomo George DuRoy, WASN'T borrowing his technique from Busby Berkeley.

As the saying goes, "Rome wasn't built in a day," nor do I imagine we wish it had been. The same artistry and dedication can be found in the countless custom-built extreme metal restraining devices you see binding the beautiful naked bodies of the women who willingly surrender control in exchange for pleasure on DeviceBondage.com. If you think it's easy making BDSM porn, check out exactly how much effort and thought goes into every shaft and every nut.